HERE'S TODAY'S LETTER: Dr. Shane and Tom,

I've been going out with a guy for three months, and things seemed to be going pretty well between us.But I just found out something that might be a dealbreaker:  He wears Crocs!

You know what Crocs are, right?  Those ugly clog-shaped shoes with holes in them.  Why did he have to whip these out AFTER I've started really liking him?  Could any women date a guy who wears Crocs?  What things do you hate about someone that you forgive because you like them?  Just asking............. 

--Anne, 25