The Girl I'm Dating Freaked Out at a Waiter Who Carded Her:

Dr. Shane and Tom,

I've been dating a girl for two months, and it seems like she's a little high-strung sometimes--We went out for her birthday since she just turned 29, and she's been waiting for the state to send her a new driver's license.--When she ordered a drink at the restaurant, the waiter carded her. But when she showed him her I.D., he didn't accept it because he said it was expired . . . even though it was pretty obvious what the situation was.--She started arguing with the guy, and it escalated quickly. She swore at him . . . grabbed her I.D. out of his hands . . . and stormed out of the restaurant.--The whole thing was pretty awkward, and kind of ruined her birthday night. I know women get stressed out about birthdays, but does this mean she has issues controlling her temper?--David, 30